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106 Signs of Cheating

As I said before that you've seen lots of websites with Signs of Cheating and we have our list too but that doesn't solve your problem, does it? 

Most of the time these telltale signs are circumstantial, taken out of context or explained away, somehow. Which signs have you seen?

Is your partner cheating?

The first signs are seldom the stereotypical things like lipstick on the shirt collar. they're usually much more subtle, more of an intuitive reaction to changes in a partner's behaviour.  

A change in routine, a change inhabits.

The denial of these first intuitive feelings is very common but as you'll see later, they often prove to have been a reliable first signal.

The first level of suspicion is that gut feeling that something is wrong. For some people, it is a growing feeling of uneasiness while for others it is a sudden feeling that resulted from a casual comment or incident.

52 Behavioral Signs :

  • More attentive to clothes and accessories.

  • More focused on weight and appearance.

  • More pre-occupied with job or outside interests.

  • More absent from home with time not accounted for.

  • More distant than usual.

  • Your partner calls you to see where you are so they know where your not.

  • Less willing to talk or spend time together.

  • Less interested in family issues.

  • Less involved with a shared activity.

  • Less attentive.

  • Less available emotionally.

  • Forgets to wear a wedding ring or takes it off.

  • Begins walking the dog more often.

  • Using the ATM more frequently and having unexplained expenses.

  • Turning off the phone with time not accounted for.

  • The car is cleaned out of all traces of kid's toys.

  • Becomes more possessive of their wallet/purse, computer or briefcase.

  • Comes home smelling of alcohol on the breath.

  • Pats on the back but no hugs and kisses.

  • does not want you to touch them.

  • Finding a condom in clothes or a car.

  • Comes home wearing clothes you haven't seen before.

  • Constantly late-arriving places.

  • Carries toothbrush & mouthwash.

  • Erases texts.

  • Distancing themselves from children.

  • Listens to music degrading women (eg, Ho's, Bitches)

  • The Sudden deterioration of sex drive.

  • Spends more time in front of a mirror.

  • Leaves for work early and comes home late.

  • No longer wants to kiss during sex.

  • Keeps change of clothes in the car.

  • Takes shower as soon as comes home, from being out.

  • Abruptly closes or changes window on computer or

  • Changes passwords on the phone, computer, tablet.

  • Opens separate bank account.

  • Suddenly quits or starts smoking.

  • Reading more about sex.

  • Sudden changes in bedroom sex habits.

  • Starts wearing sexy underwear but it doesn't seem like it's for 

  • Sometimes doesn't answer the phone when it rings.

  • Looking nervous before taking a call in another room.

  • Increase in drinking socially.

  • Some erratic behaviour.

  • Buys you flowers but not an occasion, maybe guilt.

  • Staying out late.

  • Withdraws from spending time with parents.

  • Suddenly private about the cell phone.

  • Locking bedroom or bathroom door.

  • Wanting privacy in the washroom when never before.

  • Stops helping around the house.


35 Verbal Signs:

  • Your partner has changed there slang words and or speech pattern they use.

  • Your partner wants to open separate bank accounts.

  • They accuse you of going through their stuff.

  • Wants you to visit relatives alone.

  • Calls out a different name during sleep.

  • Your partner wants to visit friends, hasn't seen in years.

  • Picks a fight so they have an excuse to leave and go out.

  • Blames you for relationship issues.

  • Can't remember things they've said before.

  • People you know start asking how the relationship is going.

  • Calls you by new pet name.

  • Talks about disappointments in life.

  • Your partner wants to know if you really love them.

  • No more compliments.

  • Changes political views on abortion.

  • Talking about interests that your not a part of.

  • They need space.

  • Talking more about friends of the opposite sex.

  • Your partner says there going somewhere but actually goes somewhere else.

  • Has apprehension about signing another lease or anything legally committing between you both.

  • Defends other people that cheat. (eg. Bill Clinton)

  • Doesn't want you to visit their work anymore.

  • Has to go to the gym constantly.

  • Encourages you to have your own activities.

  • Starts swearing more or changes conversational manner.

  • Turns down romantic dates with you.

  • No "I love you's".

  • Constantly talking about a co-worker.

  • Criticizes the way you look or talk down to you.

  • Has a warped view of honesty.

  • Starts remembering negative parts of your relationship.

  • Accuses you of cheating to put you on the defensive instead of them. (deflecting)

  • Constantly angry and critical of things.

  • Being evasive about detail


19 Other Signs:

  • Starts listening to new types of music.

  • Increase in late-night phone calls/texts and being secretive about who's calling.

  • Begins attending more seminars and conventions.

  • Suddenly has new friends you've never met or heard of before.

  • New interests in subjects previously ignored before.

  • Starts working nights and/or weekends.

  • Goes shopping for brand new clothes.

  • Suddenly wants to do their own laundry.

  • Becomes overly protective and jealous or suddenly stops being that way.

  • Orders new household items.

  • The new general attitude towards the church. no interest.

  • Avoids moral people and places.

  • Becomes overly protective and jealous or suddenly stops being that way.

  • Orders new household items.

  • Avoids moral people and places.

  • Attitude towards God and the church has deteriorated.

  • Increased social events your not invited to.

  • Your partner is going to restaurants you haven't been to as a couple.


If you've seen signs of cheating in your partner, then let's see if your partner has a Motive to cheat on you.